8 Things Men Find Unattractive But Won't Tell You [MUST READ]
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Here are eight bonehead moves NOT to make if you want it to last.
1. Needy baby greedy baby.
Don�t become too dependent. Don�t abandon your friends and family and depend on him for all of your emotional needs. It�s dangerous and honestly, it�s unattractive.
2. Great expectations � it�s not just the name of a movie, it�s a relationship killer. Of course you should expect certain things: respect, civility, etc. But don�t think your relationship is a cure-all. And surely don�t expect your lover to lavish you with gifts, even if he got it like that.
3. Remote control � don�t hog the remote control, meaning don�t be the one making all the decisions all the time.
4. Jealousy.
This is a big no-no. First of all, it�s scary. And it�s not healthy. He is going to have friends and family that he will want to spend time with, too. Slow your roll. Don�t be possessive.
5. Flirting with other people. It�s not nice. It�s disrespectful. It�s most likely to piss off your date and start a fuss. All for what? Makesure that you and your partner have boundaries and you know what makes him feel uncomfortable.
6. Boring.
Be a little spontaneous now and then. Don�t be so predictable all the time and put your relationship into a rut.
7. Expecting change.
Oh what a big killer! Do not expect your mate to change for you. Like and love �em for who they are, not whatYOU think you can turn him into.
8. Ultimatums.
�If you don�t do this, it�s over.� It will be. Communicate your concerns or wants. Don�t be demanding. If there�s a problem, be supportive without being pushy. A good relationship is a balance act and one of compromise on the part of both people. Don�t commit murder and kill the buzz before it has even had a chance
1. Needy baby greedy baby.
Don�t become too dependent. Don�t abandon your friends and family and depend on him for all of your emotional needs. It�s dangerous and honestly, it�s unattractive.
2. Great expectations � it�s not just the name of a movie, it�s a relationship killer. Of course you should expect certain things: respect, civility, etc. But don�t think your relationship is a cure-all. And surely don�t expect your lover to lavish you with gifts, even if he got it like that.
3. Remote control � don�t hog the remote control, meaning don�t be the one making all the decisions all the time.
4. Jealousy.
This is a big no-no. First of all, it�s scary. And it�s not healthy. He is going to have friends and family that he will want to spend time with, too. Slow your roll. Don�t be possessive.
5. Flirting with other people. It�s not nice. It�s disrespectful. It�s most likely to piss off your date and start a fuss. All for what? Makesure that you and your partner have boundaries and you know what makes him feel uncomfortable.
6. Boring.
Be a little spontaneous now and then. Don�t be so predictable all the time and put your relationship into a rut.
7. Expecting change.
Oh what a big killer! Do not expect your mate to change for you. Like and love �em for who they are, not whatYOU think you can turn him into.
8. Ultimatums.
�If you don�t do this, it�s over.� It will be. Communicate your concerns or wants. Don�t be demanding. If there�s a problem, be supportive without being pushy. A good relationship is a balance act and one of compromise on the part of both people. Don�t commit murder and kill the buzz before it has even had a chance
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